The Poisonwood Bible

Wowza. I read the Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver this weekend. My, how it brought me back.

Ten years ago, I lived in Mali, West Africa...for just one year. It's a year I remember better than any year of my life, and yet it doesn't feel like it's possible that it was THIS body that was there. It feels like another lifetime or a very long dream or a movie you grew up watching. I never talk about it, and I think that is because there are just no words. No one in my life was there to witness it with me, except one good friend who lives in TX now, and even with her, our memories are enough. It's just too heavy for words.

But this book. This author knows how to describe the taste, smell, feeling of an African village. She is remarkable, the sheer amount of lessons carefully weaved into this piece of historical fiction. It should be read by anyone going to Africa, period, especially going as a missionary. It's painful and scary, as is Africa! But it's beautiful and real, as is Africa as well. I realize I'm not giving any real thoughts or details here; I'm not even telling anyone to read the book, because it could mess you up entirely! But in my soul, it stirs what has always been there. It's not as raw and broken as it used to be, because I'm sealed inside this new season of life, a season of life where God has chosen a different slew of priorities for me. But it is still there. I'll always love the people of Africa with a huge portion of my heart; I hope some of them in the village of Dialakorobougou know it.

Lovely Thursday

Ah, this is indeed lovely. I recognize that I am one of the very few moms out there with this luxury: My mom comes every Thursday to watch my kids. Sometimes she even does a little (or a lot of) house cleaning. It's a shot in the arm, in those months of sickness or in those days that I actually feel well enough to get out and have lunch with a friend. Oh, God bless my mother!

Today, I slept until 11:45. That would be 14 hours! For over a week now, I have been sleeping like a dream, oh my gosh, I cannot describe how miraculous it is to be sleeping without medication!!! I am off Ambien and Trazodone, and using a mixture of some natural things and it's working better than the officially serious drugs. (For any insomniacs out there: 3 mg Melatonin, 100 mg Phosphatidylserine, 200 mg Magnesium). Anyway, so what feels so great -and I just have to revel in it because my health has made me really depressed the last month and now things are looking up- is that I am CHOOSING to spend the day in bed today until my mom leaves, instead of being forced to. I feel great! I'm just going to listen to teaching CDs, read (I may even indulge in a little fiction), and later spend some time exercising, cleaning, and cooking. Thursdays are also especially fun because it's almost the weekend, where all bets are off as far as I'm concerned.

It's days like this that I must remember are coming, for sanity's sake. It's also days like this that remind me that people want to know how they can help. As moms, we stink at asking for help or clearly stating to our families/husbands/whatever what thing they could do that would rock our worlds. If we told them and planned for it, we might just be happier, relaxed, and have more "me" days than we thought possible...and I won't let anyone tell me that that's a bad thing! One last thought: It's days like this (where I feel well yet also have a chance to chill) that I can see clearly enough to know that eating junk food or candy IS NOT the sum total of fun and relaxation. I tend to think if I'm calling a total chill day that I must stock my bedside table with unhealthy foods and watch TV all day. But when i'm feeling well enough to use my little brain, I know that days like this can be a great time to perpetuate the wellness, not drive it to extinction!

Still Thinking About Songs

Well, so far today has not worked out how I planned...it is better!

We wanted to go to church; Yemi and I have strep throat, but are not contagious anymore, and we needed to get out of the house! But at about 11 a.m., she decided she needed an early nap, so I've had the luxurious privilege of about 2 hours with the Lord. I was listening to some teaching by Martha Kilpatrick (amazing!), and then I saw on my iTunes where I had recorded some "new" songs last fall.

I have laid it down, this singing thing. I don't think about it often. But...when I am reminded that I am a singer-songwriter, when I reminded of these old and new songs, when I sing, something kind of wakes up on the inside. There are a whole 10 people waiting for me to make a new CD, and that is enough motivation for me! However, there are so many things holding me back. Let me explore that real quick...

I need a band. Quite honestly, my piano ballads with just my voice are a bit boring. Yet, that is what I write, and I need a producer and band to give energy and life to my lyrics and melodies. What I produce completely on my own just isn't enough for an entire CD; I have more than enough songs, I just need some additional input from several others who "get" me. That is hard to find.

It's been a hard year, and so many times I have thought I may never get to be behind the piano singing my own concert again. Throat problems, health problems, time problems. I actually, on a spiritual level, needed to get away from it; I needed to come to the place where I knew I couldn't do anything for the Lord until I learned to do nothing for Him. But I think, just for fun, it is going to happen again. Maybe even soon! I'm dreaming of a little concert where I just am who I am. I'm not great on the guitar, that's a fact; I'm not interesting on the piano, another fact! BUT I can just be who I am where I am...and trust God will use that.

If you happen to be a "fan", pray for me. That's all I need. I seek Him first and He can add whatever He wants. :)

Waiting for my Eggs to Boil

Literally, I am waiting for my eggs to boil. Yemi is in her highchair eating cinnamon toast (no sugar of course), and I thought I'd blog for a minute waiting for my eggs to become as hard boiled as possible. (I hate soft boiled eggs!)

So...I thought I'd briefly just share some random thoughts. Someday I will be cool enough to put a picture along with each thought, but today is not that day. Someone on Facebook said that Facebook is causing narcissism among young adults, so in honor of that, here's a post with every sentence starting with "I".

I - have a sore throat and plan to spend my day on the couch as much as possible.

I- am giving up on potty training Yemi for awhile. I'm just not sure she understands.

I- found out yesterday Yemi's speech is perfectly normal, if not advanced, much to my surprise.

I- am reading Experiencing the Depths of Jesus Christ by 18th century writer Madame Jeanne Guyon and it is amazing.

I- have worn out my John Mark McMillan CD.

I- am going to church with my family 3x a week now, which is a really nice improvement over zero!

I- cannot lose a pound. Not even one. Counting carbs, eating crazy well, no sugar, exercise 5 days a week. Not a pound.

I- am happy it's Friday and a 3 day weekend...more time with Selah and fun family days. No major plans, but it'll just be good. I like the norm very much, but it's just fun to get out of it sometimes.